Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Flowers, Favors and Forget

I GOT flowers and candy this year for valentines day. My hubby doesn't believe in Silly holidays and
not a big celebrator for many things.. (birthdays, holidays) He used to spoil me allot more the first
5 yrs of our marriage. But He also has had a bypass surgery and became diabetic
so that changed our lives allot.So this was a VERY nice surprise.

 Flowers did help cheer me up from getting kinda a bad report from the doc.
 Good news not major surgery ,
Bad news I do have a polyp and small mass in one
ovaries  and not sure of the other. And she wants to do out patient treatment. Which I am so
glad about except I am care taking my Mom who WANTS to be waited on hands and foot.

Favor is for that I will find the right answer to handle this situation and also in care giving in
general. Mom is compassionate but also difficult at the same time.I am trying to reach out
online to ideas from care giving sites. And just hope and pray that I can find the right person
to connect with.
I also must say I DO have favor having such a awesome sister N Law that has taught me
so much about care giving. . 

Forget.. I hate how things can pass threw my mind so quickly.. Forgetting birthdays..
Which this month I am on overload.. (I had 4 on Feb. 13)  I have tons of calendars for this
reason and paper I cant have enough. But lately just seem to not be able to remember
anything. So I just have to write more which is OK because I do LOVE writing..